International Women’s Day (IWD) is March 8th where we celebrate the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women. On this platform I want to note that while all women are significant, there is a uniqueness about the Black woman. Our looks, our struggles, our triumphs and achievements are all unique to us.
So on this year’s Women’s Day, I have to ask: how can you support Black Women?
First off, why is this even a question? Well, Black Women have gotten a poor reputation for being “strong and independent,” especially in the United States. Our own media and music don’t help this narrative. So if one is so strong and independent, why do they need help? That’s the cause behind hesitation to support our women.
Listen, all Black women are not the same! Neither are all women. We can’t assume because one has a strong and “I can do it” exterior, doesn’t mean she needs to be left alone or cannot receive help. I know that’s not true because there are hundreds of organizations, online groups and ministries that cater to helping Black women. So let’s drop the stereotypes and check on the women in our lives.
Here are 5 proactive and meaningful ways that you can support the Black women in your life:
Listen to her voice
Just as many of us have noticed in the film Black Panther, it’s vital for women’s voices to be heard. We carry wisdom, knowledge and perspective that men don’t see at times. God gave us discernment and the emotional intelligence to pour into others and to protect those we are close to. Even in the book of Proverbs, Wisdom is described in feminine terms, so take time to listen, not just hear, to what the women in your life have to say. Even as young women and girls, we need to be listened to and not silenced. We have much to offer to make the world a better place, hear us out!
*Chicago! Get empowered by the ladies at the TEDx Willow Creek event on March 24th
Respect her name
It comes down to honor and respect. She’s not limited to the term “female” because that strips away the maturity and dignity of the individual woman. Honestly, not all of us have realized our worth and walked into our roles as daughters of God or even queens, but that doesn’t mean you call her less than who God created her to be. Put some respect on our names and see us for who we are.
*Chicago! Join the Be Simple U movement at their monthly meet up to discuss “Becoming Secure in the Real You” on Saturday, March 17th
Give her room to be feminine
Some women have been hardened by their circumstances and may come off as aggressive, defensive and exude more masculine behavior than feminine. This is not God’s intention for the woman. Create a space for women to be feminine by treating them with respect and honor. This includes protecting women in your lives physically, spiritually, emotionally, etc. This includes holding our fellow brothers and men accountable for how they treat other women on and offline, in their social circles, etc.
*Chicago! Join this Dear Future Husband discussion on the evolution of dating for Millennial women on March 20th
Speak into her dreams
Black women have two strikes against us in this world, but that doesn’t mean we can’t overcome and achieve our life goals and dreams. This is where you come in: speak life into our dreams. Show girls and teens positive role models and give them books and resources to learn more about this big world. Encourage them to not just be an employee but to become a boss in order to create jobs and opportunities for others.
*Atlanta! Join me at the She in Motion Women’s Conference in Atlanta, GA on April 14th
Give back to her causes
Once dreams become realities, it requires investment from others to help it grow. Support the Black women in your life by supporting their causes. It could be from a new business to a blog post or non-profit. What is she truly passionate about? How can you help her cause grow to help others in need? See where you can give back to your community through a cause ran by a Black woman.
*Chicago! Support women entrepreneurs, influencers and more at Epic Fab Girl’s Go-Getter Conference on March 23rd-24th
**Special event for women!** Join me, Kristin Kimble, Russelyn Williams and Lisa Gordon for this special webinar on Tuesday, March 20th! Click Here to RSVP
Yesssss!! This is sooo true. Even though the fact that this has to be written and expressed is unfortunate.
Agreed! Thanks for reading, Sierra!