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Ready to shoot your shot this Summer? 3 approach tips for shy men and women

We’ve officially made it to Summer! This means going out more to festivals, rooftop events, day parties, marathons and traveling! In the midst of these events, you may see someone that you’d be interested in getting to know. In 2018 if you have the confidence to, you can surely “shoot your shot” or approach someone you’re interested to start a conversation and see where it goes from there.

But what if you’re shy, introverted, or not used to approaching? That’s why I’ve asked the “Shy Advocate,” Fiana of Approach2Link to share some valuable tips for men and women to help you ease into conversations with minimal awkwardness and maximum results:

Three things women who desire to approach the man that they are interested in:

  1. Ditch the idea that approaching means you are pursuing – relax! When you are approaching a man, you are not pursuing him. What you are simply doing is initiating a conversation
  2. Be approachable ready – turn every opportunity to meet a potential man into an approachable one being open to conversation
  3. Have a conversation starter – conversation starters equip you with something to say so that you can always be prepared to initiate conversations

Three things men who desire to approach the woman of their dreams:

  1. Overcome your fear of rejection by learning strategies to approach to increase your chances of being accepted
  2. Create approachable opportunities – turn every opportunity to meet a potential woman into an approachable one by initiating a conversation
  3. Have an icebreaker – icebreakers equip you with something to say so that you can always be prepared to initiate conversations

Need help with initiating conversations? Fiana teaches shy men (and women) how to start a conversation so that they can meet new people without fear. Start learning new strategies today by downloading the free ebook “Start a conversation in Under 60 Seconds with a Simple Trick”: bit.ly/Under60Secs


Approach2link, Fiana KerrFiana is an Approachability Strategist who is affectionately known as the Shy Advocate. She helps shy individuals learn approachability strategies so that they can approach or be approached without fear or feeling awkward so that they can meet new people and build relationships. You can find her on various social media platforms with the user handle @approach2link

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  1. Nikki Lee

    This is so great and I love how it’s geared towards women too! No harm in us shooting out shot

  2. Teeara

    Love it! This will definitely help with that communication skills!

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