Are Opposite Gender Friendships Worth the Reward?
There is a divide in the church on many issues and believers are divided on various things from the music we play in our churches, to the existence of spiritual…
BLISS short stories: Process of Elimination Pt. 1
“I’m not looking for a man…I’m not looking for a relationship…I’m waiting on God. I want so much more than what I had…I want a man who knows God, not…
How much of a helpmeet should you be before you get married?
Twenty years ago I was in summer camp singing and dancing to the R&B hits of the time. TLC’s classic “No Scrubs” was new on the radio as well as…
Your date may be colorist if…
It's been a while since I've blogged specifically on the topic of colorism (prejudice against dark skinned people within one's community). This issue has been center of many discussions within…
Single ladies! What are your plans for the summer?
Summer is on it's way, so what are your plans? I have something special coming up for the ladies this season and I want to get your take on a…
The rejection was God’s protection
We crossed paths in my call of duty. I had gone to the hotel market in China to buy some things I required for the housing project I had. My…
3 ways society’s version of success is failing us
What does success mean to you? Would you be honest and share what was the first thought that came to mind with the word success? For some of you it…
Wanting financial security is NOT gold digging
I wanted to explore this topic again because of some videos that came out about the topic of hypergamy, which essentially is marrying someone in a higher social or economic…
How to guard your heart while dating
What does guarding your heart look like while dating? "God protected my heart when I wasn't doing it myself." You may have seen or learned the proverb about guarding your…
